Why Coaches Love Players Who Reach Out First

Most players wait too long to start the recruiting process. They think they need to be "good enough" before reaching out to a coach.

Here is the truth: coaches do not remember the players who wait. They remember the ones who introduce themselves early and keep showing up.

The power of reaching out first

When you email a coach, you are not begging for a scholarship. You are doing something most players never do:

• Showing maturity
• Taking initiative
• Expressing interest in a specific program
• Putting yourself on the radar before everyone else

If two athletes have similar skill levels, the one who has emailed more than once and shown real interest often gets the second look.

Why it is never too early

Even if you are in eighth or ninth grade, it is not too early to send an introductory email. NCAA communication rules limit the response timeline, but they do not stop you from introducing yourself.

"Hi Coach, my name is [Name], and I am currently an eighth grader playing water polo in [City, State]. I know it is early, but I wanted to let you know I have already written down a goal: I want to play for [University Name] one day. I love your team's style, I admire the way you coach, and I am going to work every year to make it happen. I hope to stay in touch over the next few seasons."

Example outreach email

That kind of message stands out. Coaches remember names that show up in the inbox year after year.

Send 10 emails before your junior year and your name has a real chance of sticking when coaches are finally allowed to respond.

What to include in your first email

• Your name, grad year, position, and location
• Why you are reaching out now
• Why you like that program specifically
• A highlight video link if you have one
• Academic info such as GPA and test scores if available
• Upcoming tournaments or camps

Keep it short. Five to six sentences is enough.

For a complete picture of the recruiting process — NCAA timelines, highlight reels, academics, and the mistakes that cost roster spots — read the complete guide to college water polo recruiting.